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In group
The four modules, taught out loud, practiced with peers who know this particular heat. Not a lecture. A drill.
DBT for teens in residence
Mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal skill — practiced until they work under heat.
- 30–90 days
- Ages 12–17
- 24/7
What this is
A skill that still works when the feeling is 100
DBT here is not a laminated handout. It is four skills — mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness — taught in group, practiced in individual, coached when the hallway is already on fire. Built for teens whose feelings outrun the pause. Built for self-harm, rage, a goodbye that feels like the end.
When this is the right tool
- 01
0 to 100
A small no becomes a storm. The skill has to survive heat. A worksheet after the fact does not.
- 02
The body takes the spike
Self-harm, a slammed door, a threat. Distress needs a next move that is not the old one.
- 03
Relationships that rupture
A text, a tone, a parent who said no. Interpersonal skill is the difference between repair and a war.
- 04
A feeling they cannot name
Mindfulness here is not incense. It is noticing the heat before it runs the hour.
- 05
Shame after
The spike, then “I ruin everything.” Regulation includes the after — not only the peak.
- 06
Parents who are out of moves
Validation without folding. Limits without becoming the villain. DBT is a family language here.
In the week
How it shows up here
Sessions, the family table, and the house itself — the same skill, practiced in three places.
02
In individual
The primary therapist targets the behavior that almost happened yesterday. Chain analysis. A skill for the next time.
03
On the floor
Coaching in the hour it happens. Staff speak DBT. The skill is useless if it only works on a whiteboard.
The work
How we use it
Chosen for this teen — not a stack of every method we know. This piece is in the mix for a reason. It is not the whole plan.
- Core of the plan
Skills group
Mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness. Repeated until they are reflex.
Individual DBT
A primary therapist who targets the behavior, not the story about the behavior. Chain analysis. A next skill.
Coaching in the moment
The hallway, the meal, the phone. Staff who can cue a skill while the heat is still in the room.
Family in the dialect
See the pain. Hold the line. Both. One without the other feeds the pattern.
- When needed
Psychiatry, when needed
A mood that will not hold sometimes needs a partner. We consult. Skills still lead the hour.
Your part
You are not the skill they skip
DBT rearranges how the house answers a spike. Treatment here includes you — not as a visitor, as the person who has to validate and still say no.
Fix it or fold.
Validate, then hold the line
Seeing the pain is not granting the demand. We teach both halves. One without the other feeds the next spike.
Hand them over and wait.
Learn the language
Family sessions speak DBT. You are not waiting in the parking lot. The skill has to work at your table.
Figure out Sunday later.
The first weekend home
A written plan for the no, the text, Sunday. We practice it before discharge — not after a cliff.
Length of stay
30
days in residence, by progress
Most stays land between one and three months. We do not pick a discharge date before the work is ready.
90
This work sits inside the stay
DBT sits inside the stay — group, individual, coaching, every week. Thirty to ninety days is enough to make a skill survive heat. Aftercare is a next DBT team, not a handshake.
- The first two weeks are for safety and a first skill that works — not a forced breakthrough.
- Most teens finish in one to three months. Some stay longer. We do not pick a discharge date before the work is ready.
- Aftercare is part of the stay: a written plan, a next team, and check-ins at 30, 60, and 90 days home.
When to call
Do not wait for a cliff.
If a feeling is running the house — self-harm, rage, a rupture you cannot repair — call. We will be honest if this house is too much, or not enough.
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